joys of married life
for all you who got plans of getting married, hahha!!! think about it!!
really! why? getting married kc means a lifetime commitment to someone you think you'd really want to spend your whole life with. also, getting married means happiness and sacrifice. you want to be happy, but then, there will be some that you have to sacrifice for a happy married life. there'll be some extra curricular stuff we you usually do, that may "not" be anymore there, this time. it can be thought unfair for women, kc women has more resposibilities than men..opppss!!! ehemm....excuse me. may not be true for the usual set up that women would stay at home to take care of the children and set food for the husband, while the guy would be the one to work to provide. well, not so common this time, since most women, are also working for bucks, for the family. ok, so why do women has more task than men? aside from working (women of today!), she'll soon give birth, then be the one to do the taking care stuff for the baby, since men would learn in time.....then, would be the one to wake up in the morning for nappy change for infants...since most men just do it, when the baby gets bigger...ehem...end of this one..baka may mga mag react violently..heheh! joke!
back to the main topic, married life. married life is something really mind stimulating. so for those who enjoy meaningful convesation and "arguments", ha! better get married. this is a stage of one's life when everything has to be discussed by the wife and the husband. budgeting the money, taking care of the baby, keeping the house clean, and so.... oh, did i mentioned budgeting?! coz this is one major part where these enjoyable arguments set in. for my husband and i, we usually had funny and iritating conversation for budgeting concerns. from setting aside money for the baby's milk, diapers, vitamins, water, and vaccines, to other expenses like elec bills, paying the laundry and pressing of our clothes, giving allowance to my aunt who looks after the baby when we're at work, then to our own personal budget until the next payroll.
it really gives me a headache! i swear! a friend even told me, na it's really funny daw how we do things. kc instead of my husband giving me all his salary (like the usual practice..until now, sadly...), then i'll be the one to budget everything, what we usually do is to set aside an equal amount every "pay day", then combine, then divide everything and put in individual envelops, just to make things fair. then, what's left would all be ours. it's funny, kc we seem like playing lang daw. well, not actually, i do this kc i don't want money to be the subject of an argument, or the start of one. i would also want my husband to have his own money spent the way he wanted it to be, since it's a money earned out of his hard work. so we only separate a certain part for the major and necessary expenses, the rest, we're on our own.
the erst of the headache would be managing your time from going back home from the office, taking care of the baby, then, after putting the baby to sleep (good the Odyssey still takes lots of sleep!), you have to cook coz you're already hungry, as well as for the tatay, and so....weekends, tatay will play with the baby, but nanay will be the one to do most of the chores. bathing the baby, putting him again to sleep, prepare lunch, merienda, and dinner, while still, taking care of the baby! o da vah!
ang saya di ba, just imagine how our mothers did such when we were babies, grabe tlaga, kaya nga feeling ko minsan, am i a superwoman or nagpapaka martir / pakananay / pakaasawa / pakabayani, lang ba ko? ewan, sguro.. sguro kc it's all for the family.
convinced? now, who would like to get married?!
really! why? getting married kc means a lifetime commitment to someone you think you'd really want to spend your whole life with. also, getting married means happiness and sacrifice. you want to be happy, but then, there will be some that you have to sacrifice for a happy married life. there'll be some extra curricular stuff we you usually do, that may "not" be anymore there, this time. it can be thought unfair for women, kc women has more resposibilities than men..opppss!!! ehemm....excuse me. may not be true for the usual set up that women would stay at home to take care of the children and set food for the husband, while the guy would be the one to work to provide. well, not so common this time, since most women, are also working for bucks, for the family. ok, so why do women has more task than men? aside from working (women of today!), she'll soon give birth, then be the one to do the taking care stuff for the baby, since men would learn in time.....then, would be the one to wake up in the morning for nappy change for infants...since most men just do it, when the baby gets bigger...ehem...end of this one..baka may mga mag react violently..heheh! joke!
back to the main topic, married life. married life is something really mind stimulating. so for those who enjoy meaningful convesation and "arguments", ha! better get married. this is a stage of one's life when everything has to be discussed by the wife and the husband. budgeting the money, taking care of the baby, keeping the house clean, and so.... oh, did i mentioned budgeting?! coz this is one major part where these enjoyable arguments set in. for my husband and i, we usually had funny and iritating conversation for budgeting concerns. from setting aside money for the baby's milk, diapers, vitamins, water, and vaccines, to other expenses like elec bills, paying the laundry and pressing of our clothes, giving allowance to my aunt who looks after the baby when we're at work, then to our own personal budget until the next payroll.
it really gives me a headache! i swear! a friend even told me, na it's really funny daw how we do things. kc instead of my husband giving me all his salary (like the usual practice..until now, sadly...), then i'll be the one to budget everything, what we usually do is to set aside an equal amount every "pay day", then combine, then divide everything and put in individual envelops, just to make things fair. then, what's left would all be ours. it's funny, kc we seem like playing lang daw. well, not actually, i do this kc i don't want money to be the subject of an argument, or the start of one. i would also want my husband to have his own money spent the way he wanted it to be, since it's a money earned out of his hard work. so we only separate a certain part for the major and necessary expenses, the rest, we're on our own.
the erst of the headache would be managing your time from going back home from the office, taking care of the baby, then, after putting the baby to sleep (good the Odyssey still takes lots of sleep!), you have to cook coz you're already hungry, as well as for the tatay, and so....weekends, tatay will play with the baby, but nanay will be the one to do most of the chores. bathing the baby, putting him again to sleep, prepare lunch, merienda, and dinner, while still, taking care of the baby! o da vah!
ang saya di ba, just imagine how our mothers did such when we were babies, grabe tlaga, kaya nga feeling ko minsan, am i a superwoman or nagpapaka martir / pakananay / pakaasawa / pakabayani, lang ba ko? ewan, sguro.. sguro kc it's all for the family.
convinced? now, who would like to get married?!
posted by ma-ann @ 10:32 PM
2 Comments:
basta ako di magpapakasal!!!
period.....
wahahaha!!! bading!
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